Too Hot to Handle stars Francesca Farago and Harry Jowsey split last week, seemingly for good this time. Francesca announced the split in a video uploaded to her YouTube channel. Harry followed with a video of his own.

Many fans thought the relationship would last. If their coupling up was successful, it would prove the thought process behind Too Hot to Handle (abstaining from sex to foster meaningful relationships), was at least somewhat successful. Unfortunately for the two, the personal work necessary to maintain a healthy relationship may have been started on the show but was seemingly not continued afterward. From the sounds of their respective videos, the pair were simply incompatible and the relationship was doomed from the start.

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In her video, Francesca explains how she thought the split, initiated by Harry, would be a brief break before they eventually got back together. Soon after, she realized the two were on different pages and would not be getting back together. Harry ended the relationship because he could no longer handle the long distance, but the problems ran much deeper. The two had split before because Harry was going through a difficult time in his life and couldn’t handle being in a relationship. The two got back together after Harry drunk texted Francesca that he missed her. But when Harry held Francesca, he knew she was more invested than he was.

Francesca Farago Too Hot to Handle

In his video, Harry repeatedly said he was infatuated with Francesca. It was indeed obvious on Too Hot to Handle that Harry only had eyes for her. Despite this infatuation, the relationship didn’t start on a foundation of mutual respect. Harry kissed Francesca, then later told the other contestants Francesca had initiated the kiss. Francesca was angered by the clear disrespect and told the other contestants Harry was lying but many didn’t believe her. The two briefly discussed the misunderstanding later and rekindled their relationship, but Harry never fully apologized until the last episode. This disrespect and Francesca’s failure to hold Harry accountable for his actions was a bad omen for the pair’s future relationship.

The pair seemed to grow throughout the length of the show and seemed to have a healthy relationship within the confines of the villa but failed to realize a relationship in the real world takes much more effort. While the mutual attraction was enough to sustain their partnership for a short time after the show stopped filming, lust and infatuation can’t sustain a long term relationship. In a long term relationship, couples must have good communication skills, similar values and aligned life plans. With what the two revealed in their respective videos and their zodiac compatibility, we can hypothesize why their relationship was destined to fail from the start.

Francesca is a Cancer and Harry is a Gemini which was bound to cause conflict, eventually. Astrology Zodiac Signs ranked the overall compatibility between Cancers and Geminis at 25%, an extremely low rating. The individual discrepancies within each category contribute to this low ranking.

Too Hot To Handle Harry and Francesca

Sexual and intimacy compatibility between Cancers and Geminis comes in at five percent. Although, this may not apply considering both Harry and Francesca joined the cast of Too Hot to Handle because they enjoy sex without any relational attachments. Geminis are sexually adventurous while Cancers are more relaxed and intimate. With communication, Cancers and Geminis may be able to meet somewhere in the middle. After staying monogamous for a long period of time, the adventurous Gemini within Harry might’ve been craving more adventure. If Francesca stayed true to her Cancer ways, she might’ve craved more intimacy than Harry was willing to provide. The long distance preventing them from having relations most likely exacerbated Harry’s desire for adventure and Francesca’s desire for intimacy.

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The Cancer and Gemini match also ranks low in trust, a fundamental aspect to any successful relationship. Geminis aren’t prone to withholding the truth or lying due to their rational nature. Nonetheless, their free spirit can make trust difficult, especially if they feel you’re infringing on their freedom. The amount of space a Gemini needs could leave Cancer feeling lonely and, in turn, more prone to distrust. With a swimsuit line to manage, YouTube channel, sponsorships and many other financial investment opportunities, Francesca has plenty of projects to occupy her time. The long distance could have contributed to a breakdown of trust.

When it comes to communication and intellect, a Gemini and Cancer match ranks highly at 70%. Cancer’s welcoming and motherly demeanor encourage Geminis to express their inner child and open up about things they wouldn’t usually share with others. Gemini’s communication skills lend to their moderately high communication score. While this may seem promising, it more so indicates high friendship potential and not necessarily relationship potential. In the case of Harry and Francesca, it seems outgoing communication wasn’t enough to save them.

Emotions between Geminis and Cancers rank at a low ten percent. Geminis have difficulty listening while Cancers explore their emotions in depth. Geminis may lose patience or fail to understand what Cancers are trying to say as a Geminis attention is laser-focused towards the future. When Geminis do express emotion, Cancers may not be able to understand the way in which Geminis are expressing their emotion. It wouldn’t be surprising if Harry had difficulty understanding and listening to Francesca’s emotions. Francesca expressed in her break up how she wished to work through their problems. That would require lots of emotional maturity and exploration and maybe Harry wasn’t up to the task.

The real nail in the coffin for Cancer and Gemini compatibility is where their value symptoms contradict. Their values are so opposing they only receive a one percent compatibility rating. Geminis prioritize all things rational and explainable while Cancers prioritize and value all things emotional. These opposing values make a functional relationship near impossible because the partners entered and operate within the relationship with different goals.

This discrepancy in values most likely lies at the core of Harry and Francesca’s split. Francesca’s main focus was always on building a deep emotional connection with Harry while Harry simply couldn’t reciprocate Francesca’s level of emotional investment. As he said in his video, Harry could feel how Francesca was more in love and emotionally invested when he held her. From the looks of it, Harry’s main focus was always on having new adventures with Francesca but couldn’t withstand the emotional lens through which Francesca approached their partnership. Harry probably still loves Francesca deeply but just recognized the two were just too incompatible to function.

Source: Astrology Zodiac Signs