For almost ten years, Teresa Giudice of The Real Housewives of New Jersey has been trying her best to take down her little brother Joe Gorga and his wife, Melissa Gorga. No one is truly sure what caused the family fallout. However, fans do know that Teresa can hold a grudge.

To say that Melissa, Joe, and Teresa's relationship has been tense over the last few years would be an understatement. Teresa has been an OG on RHONJ since day one, with Melissa and Joe joining the cast in season 3. For seasons, viewers have been trying to figure out what went wrong within the Giudice/Gorga family to cause such a long-running feud. Fans figured when Melissa and Joe joined RHONJ, Teresa wasn't happy about them stepping on her turf. While Teresa claimed Melissa went behind her back to Andy Cohen and begged to be on the show, Melissa stated those claims weren't true. This began the battle between the Giudice and Gorga families.

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Tensions have never simmered down, with the next altercation occurring at a christening for Melissa and Joe's son in 2011. Joe Gorga and Joe Giudice got into a heated argument and Gorga's father, Giacinto Gorga, even got involved. The whole affair was ruined with plates and punches being thrown. Melissa escalated the issue when she made a dig at Teresa's Skinny Italian cookbook noting her sister-in-law rarely cooked. The fight seemed to get petty when Teresa made fun of Joe and Melissa's offering of sprinkle cookies at their Christmas fathering. As fans learned, Teresa was more of a fan of pignoli cookies than sprinkle cookies. However, the primary crack in the family's foundation was stripper-gate during RHONJ season 4.

Melissa Gorga and Teresa Giudice on The Real Housewives of New Jersey

As RHONJ fans will recall, Teresa, along with the help of Kim D, tried to set the mother of three up in 2012 by claiming she used to work down the shore as a stripper. When his sister called his wife a gold digger, Joe started to understand that Teresa had a vendetta. The tension seemed to remain at a simmer for a few seasons, but it all boiled over during RHONJ season 9 when Teresa accused her brother of not being there for their dying father.

As The Real Housewives of New Jersey viewers are well aware, Melissa, Joe, and Teresa have never gotten back on track. Season 13 has just ended with viewers learning they once again had a major blowout due to Teresa spreading rumors about Melissa cheating. At the last hour, Joe and Melissa chose not to attend Teresa's wedding to Luis Ruelas, instead opting for a day at the beach. It is starting to look like the family will never come back together.