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The Sims 4 is known for allowing players to tell whatever stories they want, and this includes the ability to romance the Grim Reaper in the game. While the Grim Reaper functions differently than normal NPCs and has some unique rules, interacting with him isn’t too different from interacting with regular Sims. Before beginning a romance with the Grim Reaper, however, players will need Sims to kill as a sacrifice to summon him. Because of this, players should have a few disposable Sims and the one that players want to use to seduce the Grim Reaper on the same lot and household to make things easier.

The first thing players will need to do to begin their romance is kill that Sim to get the Grim Reaper to show up. This can be done in several dozen ways, but one of the easiest and fastest methods is by drowning a Sim in a pool. This can be done by having a sim enter a pool without any ladders, and building a wall directly around the pool edges, so they can’t get out. Once the sacrificial Sim passes away, the Grim Reaper will make his appearance.

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Flirting & Romancing The Grim Reaper in Sims 4

a Sim in Sims 4 Stargazing with the Grim Reaper

The Reaper moves quickly and disappears almost immediately after dealing with the dead Sim, so players will need to get to him fast to prevent him from going away. Once the Grim Reaper is in the vicinity, players can interact with him like they can with any other Sim. This means they can select romantic conversation options like Flirting. Although the Grim Reaper will appear uninterested in romance, players must keep persisting until the Love Bar fills up.

When romancing the Grim Reaper in Sims 4 he can be a bit unpredictable, and he may disappear in the middle of talking to your Sim before the Love Bar can be filled! If this happens, another Sim must die before he will reappear.

Once the bar is filled, the Grim Reaper will feel comfortable spending time with the Sim, and players will unlock the full range of Romance options. This includes almost everything normal Sims can do with each other, but the Grim Reaper cannot WooHoo in Sims 4 (or Try for Baby) without the use of mods. Players can still have their Sim marry the Grim Reaper if they choose to, however.

How to Marry the Grim Reaper in Sims 4

The Grim Reaper awaits a Sim's impending death in The Sims 4

To marry the Grim Reaper in Sims 4, players need to add him to their household. This can be done by turning testingcheatstrue on in Sims 4 via cheats. Players can then select the ‘Add to household’ option when holding SHIFT+C and hovering over the Grim Reaper with their cursor. This will add the Reaper to the current household, and allow him to be able to marry any other Sim.

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While players may need to make some unethical decisions on the way, romancing the Grim Reaper is definitely possible in Sims 4. For players with an active imagination, this can be a great way to spice up their Sims' lives and tell some exciting new stories with their characters.

How to WooHoo the Grim Reaper in Sims 4

A Sim is lying dead next to a bed while the Grim Reaper approaches

For players who are looking to mod being able to WooHoo the Grim Reaper into Sims 4, there is a detailed post on The Sims' official forums which provides instructions. There are also multiple YouTube videos that detail the process and have led to rather amusing content, such as the video below from Clare Siobhán, where their sim actually became pregnant by Sims 4's Grim Reaper:

07/27/2023 Editor's Note:

A previous version of this article used images from SimsCommunity in error - these have since been replaced.

  • The Sims 4 Poster Cover Art
    The Sims
    Released:
    2014-09-02
    Developer:
    Maxis
    Franchise:
    The Sims
    Genre:
    Simulation
    Platform:
    Xbox One, PlayStation 4, PC
    Publisher:
    Electronic Arts
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