Sidian Jones from Seeking Sister Wife might appear to be one of the most trustworthy husbands on the show, but he has a mysterious past, and it's time to talk about his first marriage. Like some of his highly scrutinized co-stars, he does have an ex-wife. Sidian shares his life on Seeking Sister Wife with his current partner, Tosha Jones, but the couple hasn't been transparent about their history with Sidian's first spouse. From the end of her marriage with Seeking Sister Wife star Sidian to details about her arrest, here's everything there is to know about Sidian's first wife.

Sidian and Tosha were first introduced to audiences on Seeking Sister Wife season 3 in 2021, but the pair's complicated past stretches back years before their reality TV debut. Amongst the crowd of unpopular polygamist families like the Snowdens (who were accused of domestic abuse) and the Merrifields (who are struggling to keep their marriage alive), Sidian and Tosha initially came off as a refreshingly functional couple. While Sidian and Tosha might seem like a typical polygamist couple on the hunt for a sister wife, their history is full of controversy that puts them on a par with the other problematic Seeking Sister Wife stars.

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One crucial aspect of Sidian's life before Seeking Sister Wife is his former wife. On the reality show, Sidian and his partner Tosha Jones tried not to mention their former spouse too much. The couple just shared that Sidian had a wife that left the pair before they started filming Seeking Sister Wife. As sleuths discovered more about Sidian's past, however, the fallout between the married couple became much more complicated than Sidian and Tosha made it out to be. Sidian explained that he and his first wife were originally in a monogamous marriage and had two children together, Liliam and Tyrion. That was almost all that fans knew about Sidian's previous wife until Tosha's 2016 mugshot was uncovered. Fans discovered that Tosha and Sidian's first wife got arrested on the same day, and many assumed that the pair had committed a crime together.

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In the comments section of Tracie Trendy Show's YouTube video breaking down the drama, Sidian's first wife finally broke her silence and answered many of fans' unresolved questions. The controversial Seeking Sister Wife star's first wife, who goes by Lavandulou Seymour on YouTube, clarified that she and Sidian were never legally married. Lavandulou also explained that she and Tosha had unrelated charges. Lavandulou's most jaw-dropping revelation was that she was never on board with Tosha joining her relationship with Sidian. She explained, "I was in no way interested in polygamy, or even polyamory the 10 years Sidian and I were together." Lavandulou said she felt the need to finally speak out about Sidian cheating on her because she couldn't "let the both of them villainize me anymore and rewrite the truth." While this is Lavandulou's truth, it isn't Tosha's, who responded in the comments, "This is false information."

The truth of what happened with Sidian, Tosha, and his first wife may never be completely understood, as it is full of twists and turns, and it is contested by the Seeking Sister Wife stars. From getting arrested to leaving Sidian after getting cheated on, it's clear that Sidian's ex Lavandulou went through a lot before her story was altered on reality television. This new information about Sidian's first spouse adds a murky dimension to the Seeking Sister Wife stars' storyline.

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Source: Tracie Trendy Show/YouTube