Summary

  • Kalani and Asuelu's relationship suffered due to financial issues and Asuelu's lack of responsibility as a father and husband.
  • Asuelu admitted to cheating on Kalani, confirming rumors of his infidelity, leading to their separation.
  • Despite not filing for divorce yet, Kalani and Asuelu are not together and are likely better off apart for the sake of co-parenting their children.

Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa from 90 Day Fiancé kept fans puzzled about their relationship for months, but there are answers regarding their current status. The 35-year-old California native met Asuelu, 28, at a resort while on vacation in Samoa. Kalani got pregnant and brought Asuelu to the U.S. to get married. By the time they wedded, Kalani was pregnant again. Their relationship suffered majorly due to financial issues and Asuelu not being responsible enough as a father and husband.

Trouble began in 2022 when Kalani revealed Asuelu unfollowed her on Instagram. He confirmed that he had communication issues with Kalani and revealed he was “single.” The couple refrained from posting about or mentioning each other on social media. Soon, Asuelu was back in Samoa, and 90 Day Fiancé star Kalani found herself looking for homes in California to stay with their sons Oliver and Kennedy. After split rumors abounded in spring 2023, what is the relationship status of Kalani and Asuelu today?

Are Kalani & Asuelu From 90 Day Fiancé Still Married In 2022?

Kalani and Asuelu from 90 Day Fiancé

While Asuelu and Kalani attempted to assuage rumors of their divorce by posing together for a Christmas photo of their little family, Kalani and Asuelu separated. However, they have yet to file divorce papers. Kalani lives in California with her kids, and while Asuelu returned from Samoa, they are not together. Divorce will likely be the next step, but Asuel and Kalani are separated for now.

Asuelu and Kalani Are Not Getting Along

90 Day Fiance's Asuelu and Kalani -With Their Sons

Since the news of their separation earlier this year, Asuelu and Kalani haven't hidden their disdain for each other. Most recently, Asuelu admitted he cheated on Kalani, thus confirming rumors he had been unfaithful. Due to Asuelu's infidelity, Kalani has been dating Dallas Nuez, and their relationship seems serious. He has already been introduced to Kalani's family, and they're considering moving in together.

Could Kalani & Asuelu Come Together To Co-Parent?

Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After

It's likely Asuelu and Kalani tried to stay together in 2022 for the purposes of co-parenting and couldn't stand it any longer. While they had some rough patches in the past, it became clear by the start of 2023, this time was different. Hopefully, 90 Day Fiancé's Kalani and Asuelu can sort through their issues and effectively co-parent for the good of their children. Given all the drama, they are likely better apart.