Darcey Silva of Darcey & Stacey fame recently fired her professional matchmaker, but some people who follow the show think that the expert had a point. While there were some moments of unprofessional behavior from the matchmaker, Michelle, she still had some advice that many fans think Darcey should take. The reality star reacted strongly to what she perceived as Michelle overstepping a boundary, but viewers think that the reality celeb overreacted to her comments.
Darcey has had a difficult time finding her perfect match. After four 90 Day Fiancé seasons, and the same number of Darcey & Stacey installments, she's been with a string of sketchy partners. It's different for sister Stacey Silva, who married longtime partner Florian Sukaj in late 2022. Darcey's ups and downs have been hard to watch, as some fans genuinely want her to find someone that makes her happy. However, others think that 90 Day Fiancé's Darcey Silva's dating life is hopeless, and her recent matchmaking fails only compound these feelings. Darcey doesn't want to take advice that might improve her relationships, and this may be her downfall.
Why Darcey & Stacey Fans Think Michelle Is Right
Darcey opened up this season about not wanting to, "be lonely" like her mother, and went to Michelle to be matched with, "quality men." Fans on Reddit like Heavy-Macaroon-5176 believe that Darcey wasn't completely honest about what she wanted. As a result, Michelle was, "set up for failure." Most think the matchmaker, "spoke the truth" about Darcey needing to work on herself, but Darcey wasn't ready to hear it. Some Redditors on that thread are afraid that Darcey is, "disconnected" from her mental and physical, "well-being," and unwilling to make necessary changes. The matchmaker called Darcey, 'inappropriate,' and that may be true to an extent.
What Darcey & Stacey Fans Think Darcey Should Do
Darcey lacks, "self-esteem," as per a Reddit user. Followers feel she wanted, "premium results" from the matchmaker, without making any "effort" to listen to feedback, or follow up with others. Fans think Darcey shouldn't be taking, "shortcuts" when it comes to her relationships. They want her to learn how to, "communicate differently or more maturely." Michelle, while considered, "snooty," wasn't wrong for trying to, "coach" Darcey. Her job as a matchmaker is to notice things that Darcey might not catch, and her advice for the reality star wasn't awful at all. For example, she recommended that Darcey use unfiltered photos.
Darcey didn't deserve the unprofessional tone her matchmaker took with her while offering recommendations to improve her dating experiences, but the advice wasn't malicious. Darcey doesn't have a good track record with men, and Michelle only wanted to give her insight into why her relationships haven't been working out. Everyone has something they can improve, and Darcey ignoring honest feedback won't help her find a good man. Michelle had the best intentions, and Darcey got offended. If she followed the advice she was given, the Darcey & Stacey star's disastrous relationships might become a thing of the past. It might be the key to Darcey avoiding men like Jesse Meester and Tom Brooks.
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