Summary
- Love, Actually explores the heartbreaking subplot of a wife discovering her husband's affair on Christmas Eve, highlighting the emotional toll infidelity can take.
- American Beauty takes a bleak and cynical look at the breakdown of a family due to infidelity, showcasing the dark comedy that can arise from such a situation.
- Crazy, Stupid, Love offers a lighthearted take on cheating wife movies, with a star-studded cast and a storyline that prompts self-discovery and growth for the main characters.
Being cheated on is generally a brutal and heartbreaking occurrence, and sometimes the person doing the cheating ends up getting hurt too — this is especially explored in cheating wife movies or cheating husband movies. However, infidelity has provided Hollywood with some very compelling and dramatic cheating movies. Whether it's jilted lovers or murdered souls out for revenge, adultery has been a catalyst for some truly romantic or tragic stories that explore this subject from every angle. Movies about cheating and infidelity aren't always about sex, though.
Using the tantalizing subject matter, these movies can tell each side of the relationship's story, what led to the affair, whether it was justified, and the ramifications. Many of these cheating movies provide audiences with either a fantasy or a cautionary tale while telling them something about their own lives. They can show the damage that can be done as a result as well as the human moments that emerge from an affair. While cheating wife movies tend to be rarer than cheating husband movies, the trope still exists.
25 Love, Actually (2003)
Alan Rickman Cheats On Emma Thompson
Love Actually
- Release Date
- November 14, 2003
- Director
- Richard Curtis
- Cast
- Colin Firth , Emma Thompson , Liam Neeson , Keira Knightley , Chiwetel Ejiofor , Laura Linney , Alan Rickman , Hugh Grant , Bill Nighy , Andrew Lincoln
- Runtime
- 135 minutes
While it is also a great Christmas movie enjoyed by many during the holiday season, Love, Actually also features a heartbreaking cheating subplot. The movie takes a look at various intersecting stories of love and romance around the holidays with an all-star cast. One of those stories features Emma Thompson as a wife and mother married to Alan Rickman, who finds out he is having an affair with his employee on Christmas Eve. Despite the humor and big romantic moments, the most memorable scene in the movie is Thompson sneaking away from her family's celebrations to cry alone in her bedroom.
Love, Actually is available to stream on Netflix.
24 American Beauty (1999)
Infidelity Breaks Down A Family
Sam Mendes' Best Picture-winning American Beauty takes a bleak and cynical look at suburban life and the need to escape its monotony. Kevin Spacey won an Oscar for his role as a bored family man going through a midlife crisis while his wife has an affair with her colleague. The movie is an intense drama at times, but there are also moments of dark comedy, as when Spacey's wife and her lover go through a fast food drive-thru in the midst of their affair, only to find Spacey working his new job and taking their order. The movie treats the affair as one more example of this family's broken nature that none of them are willing to fix.
American Beauty is available to stream on Netflix.
23 Crazy, Stupid, Love (2011)
Infidelity Prompts A New Lease On Life
Crazy, Stupid, Love (2011)
- Release Date
- July 29, 2011
- Director
- Glenn Ficarra , John Requa
- Cast
- Steve Carell , Ryan Gosling , Julianne Moore , Emma Stone , Analeigh Tipton , Jonah Bobo
- Runtime
- 118minutes
One of the funnier and more lighthearted cheating wife movies, Crazy, Stupid, Love is a hilarious and charming star-studded movie. Steve Carell stars as a man going through the motions in life only to learn that his wife (Julianne Moore) is having an affair. The moment shakes him out of his funk as a younger man (Ryan Gosling) takes him under his wing to teach him how to pick up women, while Carell begins to realize he took his wife for granted. Crazy, Stupid, Love features a likable ensemble with a secondary romance story between Gosling and Emma Stone adding to the story and also setting up a hilarious twist.
22 The Descendants (2011)
George Clooney Learns To Grieve For His Cheating Wife
The Descendants
- Release Date
- December 9, 2011
- Director
- Alexander Payne
- Cast
- Amara Miller , Shailene Woodley , Robert Forster , George Clooney , Beau Bridges , matthew lillard , Judy Greer , Nick Krause
- Runtime
- 115 minutes
George Clooney received an Oscar nomination for his role in this complex comedy-drama. He plays a man whose wife falls into a coma after an accident and with no chance of her waking up. As he makes arrangements for her passing on, he finds out that she was cheating on him with another married man. The concept of dealing with losing a partner while also dealing with their betrayal is a fascinating one, as Clooney's performance sells the conflict in this man who is filled with anger and sadness simultaneously. The Descendants earned several Oscar nominations while also winning Best Screenplay.
21 Blood Simple (1984)
A Cheating Wife And Her Beau Are Targeted By A Hitman
With their debut movie, the Coen Brothers delivered an expert noir movie as well as one of the most intense cheating movies of all time. Blood Simple follows a man who begins an affair with his cruel boss's wife only for the boss to find out and hire a deranged private detective to kill them. What follows is a brilliant and exciting tale of suspicion and broken trust that showcases the Coens' brilliant style. It also features one of the most underrated movie villains of all time in M. Emmett Walsh's disturbingly gleeful detective.
Blood Simple is available to stream on Max.
20 Indecent Proposal (1993)
One Transaction Dooms A Marriage
In Indecent Proposal, Demi Moore and Woody Harrelson star as a loving couple, David and Diana, who have fallen on hard times, and a moment of desperation tests their love for each other. The titular proposal comes when a wealthy man, John, offers the couple $1 million in exchange for one night with Diana. After much thought, the couple agrees because they really need money. However, as the months go by, knowing that his wife and John have been together is too much for David, ultimately pushing her into John's arms.
In the Adrian Lyne movie, the questionable topic of John "buying" Diana for an evening (and only asking David's permission, not hers) has always been criticized, and this cheating wife movie received poor reviews upon release. However, Indecent Proposal went on to be a massive hit and, to this day, is a cautionary tale about desperation and the consequences of one's actions.
19 The Girl On The Train (2016)
Obsession And Infidelity Become A Murder Mystery
The Girl on the Train
- Release Date
- October 7, 2016
- Director
- Tate Taylor
- Cast
- Allison Janney , Justin Theroux , Emily Blunt , Rebecca Ferguson , Edgar Ramirez , Laura Prepon , Luke Evans , Haley Bennett , Lisa Kudrow
- Runtime
- 120minutes
Based on Paula Hawkins' debut novel, The Girl on the Train featured Emily Blunt in a standout performance as Rachel, an alcoholic obsessed with her ex-husband. She takes the train every single day, not always entering or exiting it sober. One of her favorite sights on her commute is Scott and Megan, a seemingly idyllic couple. After she (believes she) sees Scott murder Megan, Rachel gets wrapped up in a missing person case that may have larger implications regarding her potential innocence or guilt.
Hawkins' book was a fun summer read, but the film adaptation was clearly trying to emulate the visual palette seen in David Fincher's Gone Girl. That movie is widely seen as the superior of the two, but The Girl on the Train still has an incredible cast anchored by an intense Emily Blunt lead performance which earned her nominations for SAG and BAFTA awards.
18 What Lies Beneath (2000)
A Cheating Husband Suffers Supernatural Consequences
In What Lies Beneath, Harrison Ford plays Norman, a man whose affair comes back to haunt him — literally. After noticing some strange occurrences in their house, Norman's wife, Claire, discovers he had an affair with a woman who died and now is quite possibly haunting their house, which leads to more dark secrets coming to the surface. Written by Clark Gregg, acclaimed director Robert Zemeckis channels his inner Alfred Hitchcock, delivering a suspenseful, slow burn that culminates in an explosively gripping finale. Even Alan Silvestri's score is reminiscent of Hitchcock's frequent composer, Bernard Herrmann.
17 Unfaithful (2002)
Tastefully Erotic Cheating Wife Movie Starring Richard Gere
Director Adrian Lyne tackles infidelity with the aptly titled, Unfaithful. Richard Gere and Diane Lane star as Edward and Connie, a couple in a passionless marriage. However, Connie's chance encounter with a younger man, Paul, leads to an affair in one of the better cheating wife movies. Ultimately, Edward's discovery of the affair leads to a downward spiral of events. Lyne, famous for his tastefully erotic films, crafts a thriller for adults that might spark debate and discussion between the married couples who decide to watch it. Lane steals the show with her complex and layered performance, which earned her Golden Globe and Academy Award nominations.
16 Fatal Attraction (1987)
A Cheating Husband Encounters One Of Cinema's Most Iconic Villains
A rare example of an erotic thriller nominated for the Best Picture Oscar is Fatal Attraction. One of the more critically acclaimed cheating movies is directed by Adrian Lyne and stars Michael Douglas as Dan who, despite having a happy marriage, ends up involved in a passionate affair with Alex. However, after Dan puts an end to the affair, Alex won't give him up, won't be ignored, and begins exhibiting obsessive and dangerous behavior toward him. Impeccably cast and tension-filled throughout, Fatal Attraction remains a sexually charged but tragic thriller that delivers Glenn Close's Oscar-nominated role as one of the most iconic movie villains.
Fatal Attraction is available to stream on Amazon Prime Video.
15 Brothers (2009)
Perceived Infidelity Opens Old War Wounds
This underrated war drama focused on what happens when a POW comes home and the strained relationships that come as a result. Tobey Maguire plays Sam Cahill, the veteran who was held in a Taliban village and declared K.I.A. by the US military. Sam's brother, Tommy (Jake Gyllenhaal), begins entwining himself in the lives of Sam's family, including his wife, Grace, and daughters Isabelle and Maggie.
There actually is no affair in Brothers (just a swiftly regretted kiss), but Sam thinks there was. He's forced to kill a fellow soldier while being held captive and returns to the States with PTSD. As he's closing himself off from his family, his daughter alludes to Grace and Tommy being a better match. Things come to a head, forcing Sam to open up in order to save his marriage. It's an inversed take on the infidelity film, and the performance from the cast sells it well with Maguire earning a Golden Globe nomination for one of his best performances.
Brothers is available to stream on AMC+.
14 The Great Gatsby (2013)
Baz Luhrmann's Take On A Classic Infidelity Story
The Great Gatsby
- Release Date
- May 10, 2013
- Director
- Baz Luhrmann
- Cast
- Leonardo DiCaprio , Carey Mulligan , Joel Edgerton , Tobey Maguire , Jason Clarke , Elizabeth Debicki , Isla Fisher
- Runtime
- 143 Minutes
Visionary filmmaker Baz Luhrmann took on one of the most celebrated novels of all time with his adaptation of The Great Gatsby. Set in the 1920s, the movie follows a rich and mysterious man who attempts to reconnect with his old lover who is now married. There are many themes explored in this grand story and an aesthetically pleasing entry to the movies-about-cheating subgenre, but infidelity and its consequences have perhaps the biggest effect on it all. The movie is a visually stunning experience and features an all-star cast led by Leonardo DiCaprio as the title character.
13 Bound (1996)
Engrossing Infidelity Thriller Featuring The Mob
Before their ground-breaking The Matrix, the Wachowski sisters made their directorial debut with the crime thriller Bound. An entry to the cheating wife movies subgenre, the film tells the story of an ex-con who meets and falls for the girlfriend of a mob money man. As the two women engage in an affair, they make a plan to steal the money for themselves. While a much smaller-scale movie than the Wachowskis are known for, it is a gritty and engrossing thriller. However, it also showcases the brilliant filmmaking talent they already possessed.
Bound is available to stream on Paramount+.
12 Fish Tank (2009)
Michael Fassbender's Early Role As A Cheating Boyfriend
Before becoming a household name, Michael Fassbender starred in this small and intense coming-of-age drama Fish Tank. The movie tells the story of a young teenage girl who begins an affair with her mother's new boyfriend, played by Fassbender. Anchored by a terrific performance from Katie Jarvis, Fish Tank is a small and impactful story. It explores the coming-of-age drama in a grounded and powerful way, especially when intertwined with themes of infidelity. It can be difficult to watch at times but makes for a thought-provoking and powerful experience. The movie received critical acclaim and has a Criterion Collection release.
11 Sideways (2004)
Paul Giamatti's Cheating Friend Creates Moral Conflict
Sideways
- Release Date
- October 22, 2004
- Director
- Alexander Payne
- Cast
- Jessica Hecht , Marylouise Burke , Thomas Haden Church , Sandra Oh , Virginia Madsen , Paul Giamatti
- Runtime
- 127 minutes
The Oscar-winning comedy Sideways stars Paul Giamatti as a struggling writer who takes his soon-to-be-married friend on a weekend getaway in wine country. But as the friend looks to find a quick fling before his marriage, Giamatti tries to get up the courage to pursue a friendly waitress. The small independent comedy is captivating thanks to its sharp and funny script as well as some wonderful performances from the great cast, including Thomas Hayden Church as the obnoxious, cheating best friend. The movie deals with a lot of topics, including friendship, while also being a story about a midlife crisis which is handles with humor and heartbreak.
10 Notes On A Scandal (2006)
A Multilayered Tale Of Infidelity And Suspicion Starring Cate Blanchett And Judi Dench
Based on the 2003 Zoe Heller novel, Notes on a Scandal revolves around Sheba (Cate Blanchett), a teacher whose affair with a student is uncovered by another teacher, Barbara (Judi Dench), who herself has a history of stalking. Unfortunately, lonely Barbara uses the secret to her advantage in order to manipulate Sheba. Notes on a Scandal is a tragic tale of not only trusting the wrong people but also the potentially terrible repercussions an affair can have on a family and those involved. It makes for an intense thriller as well as a very human story about deeply flawed people. For their roles, both Cate Blanchett and Judi Dench received Oscar nominations.
9 Eyes Wide Shut (1999)
Stanley Kubrick's Final Movie Explores Consensual Infidelity
Stanley Kubrick's final movie saw the master filmmaker diving into the cheating movie subgenre with Eyes Wide Shut. Nicole Kidman portrays Alice Hartford, a woman who admits to her husband that there is another man she knows who she wouldn't mind sleeping with. Tom Cruise plays her doctor husband, Bill, who then takes this information and embarks on a nightlong endeavor for anonymous sex. Bill never goes through with it, but he gets close.
Kubrick's film is the same way with answers. It's not quite clear if the masked orgy cult killed Bill's friend, Nick. The same goes for the young woman who saves him at said event. It makes for an eerie and thought-provoking experience that may not reach the heights of Kubrick's most iconic work but is a stunning display of his unparalleled talents.
8 Little Children (2006)
A Cheating Wife And Husband Find Only Flaws When Seeking Forbidden Happiness
Told through omniscient narration, Little Children is one of the more complex cheating movies, and concerns Sarah (Kate Winslet) and Brad (Patrick Wilson), who find themselves having an affair after both being in an unhappy marriage. Sarah, the unhappy housewife, catches the attention of Brad, known as the "Prom King," who is married to a beautiful woman and relives his youth instead of maturing. For Sarah, the affair is realizing a fantasy, and for Brad, it means feeling desired. Combined with a subplot about a sex offender, Little Children is a complex look at suburban life with flawed everyday characters.
7 An Affair To Remember (1957)
A Classic Love Story That's Heavy On Infidelity
Starring movie icons Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr, An Affair to Remember concerns two people who have a whirlwind romance together aboard a cruise ship, despite being in relationships. They plan to meet six months later at the top of the Empire State Building to continue their romance if they have ended things with their respected partners. However, an accident leaves one unable to show up, possibly ending their reunion.
Despite initial mixed reviews, An Affair to Remember has become known as one of the most romantic movies of all time. Referenced in such films as Sleepless in Seattle, An Affair to Remember shows audiences the enduring power of love, and that despite all obstacles, true love can sometimes find its way back to you somehow, despite being about infidelity.
6 The Bridges Of Madison County (1995)
A Surprisingly Wholesome Cheating Wife Movie From Clint Eastwood
Based on the book and directed by star Clint Eastwood, The Bridges of Madison County follows Robert, a photojournalist, who comes to Madison County to photograph its bridges and, while there, meets Francesca, who's involved in a passionless marriage. The two begin a four-day affair while her husband and children are away. Ultimately, the affair gives her meaning, and she remembers it all her life.
Hollywood doesn't produce a lot of romance films about older people. However, Bridges of Madison County presents a mature, adult love story for people of experienced age, as well as young couples in it for the long haul. The performances of the two screen icons sell the romance, with Streep earning an Oscar nomination.