Shaeeda Sween hasn't had the easiest time on 90 Day Fiancé since making her debut, and this is because her fiance Bilal Hazziez and his family seem to find torturing her enjoyable. Fans of the franchise have noticed this happening on numerous occasions. Now, viewers are calling out Bilal and his family for their unnecessary behavior. Although Bilal's family claims that what they do is all in good fun, not everyone is finding it amusing, including Shaeeda.
Bilal and Shaeeda appear to have recently gotten married on 90 Day Fiancé. However, spoilers have revealed that they actually tied the knot in December 2021. Before their wedding, Shaeeda entrusted Bilal's sister Nefertari with the task of making her bridal gown. In what one can only describe as a cruel prank, Nefertari gave Shaeeda a frock that she deemed an "old lady dress." Thankfully, that wasn't Shaeeda's real dress, as Nefertari later revealed that she was pranking Shaeeda. Because of this act, 90 Day Fiancé fans are beginning to wonder if Bilal's relatives like seeing Shaeeda suffer, as they seem to find many ways to make her life harder.
On a Reddit thread discussing Shaeeda and Nefertari's latest exchange, Redditors are saying that Bilal's family's jokes aren't funny in any way, but they don't seem to realize this. Also, viewers think that they joke about things which they claim have a sentimental value to them, indirectly setting Shaeeda up. Then, they can act offended when she reacts in a way that isn't pleasing to them. This has made numerous 90 Day Fiancé fans complain about them, calling them a family of narcissists in need of therapy. In the words of u/djag84," They are a narcissistic family. They are all the same and stick together no matter what."
The need for 90 Day Fiancé star Bilal and his family to constantly manipulate and gaslight Shaeeda has made fans of 90 Day Fiancé advise Shaeeda to avoid marrying Bilal, due to Nefertari's latest stunt. However, since the pair have apparently already gotten married, the advice is a little late. Shaeeda has chosen to stick with Bilal despite everything that he and his family (including his ex-wife, Shahida) have put her through since she arrived in the United States. Viewers are now fearing for her, as they feel that she may have made a grave mistake by not heeding the red flags in her relationship sooner. As stated by Redditor u/feministstarbucks, "He doesn’t sound reliable or like he cares to make you feel safe. He cares about his entertainment only even at your expense. Seriously, I can see this ending badly."
At present, no one knows Shaeeda's reason for deciding to remain in a relationship with Bilal, despite all that she has endured from his relatives to date. 90 Day Fiancé fans are speculating that she fears she might not end up finding someone better than him, which is why she wants to make things work. Only time will tell if she ends up making a decision that changes the status quo.
Sources: u/djag84/Reddit, u/feministstarbucks/Reddit