The rambunctious Angela Deem of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is notorious for her lively and dominating attitude when it comes to finding love. Her relationship with Michael from Nigeria makes it clear that she's not a woman to mess with, but between their numerous and unfortunate conflicts, her charisma, and loud expression make her someone hard to forget.
Because of the many differences between her, Michael, and Michael's friends and family, there are times when Angela's lack of censorship or Michael's passivity can compromise their relationship and creates painfully cringe moments.
Angela Introduces Michael's Mother With Pizza
When Michael's mother and grandmother are unsatisfied with the state of dinner, Angela comes in to save the day with pizza. Although at first, the situation feels a tad awkward as the elders don't seem to be familiar with what pizza entails ("it's American," Angela explains confidently) and pause to look at it with confusion, they end up trying and liking it. It's a win, after all.
Angela's Bed is too Hard
Michael gets him and Angela an apartment, but after investigating the mattress situation, Angela deems it unworthy. Dealing with back issues, Angela states that the bed is as "hard as an erection" and that "if he wants some sex, he better [get a new bed] quick" before breaking out into maniacal laughter. It's hard not to laugh along with her after she says so.
Angela Jokes with a Gynecologist
Getting a checkup to understand her reproductive health to hopefully conceive a child for Michael, Angela tries to lighten the mood by joking with the nice doctor.
When the doctor inserts her equipment, Angela states, "that's bigger than Michael's penis... I'm just kidding!" The doctor has no response whatsoever.
Angela Asks Her Daughter to Bear Her Child
Looking to please Michael's mother by providing a grandchild, Angela asks her daughter if she would be willing to donate her eggs or carry the child. On the fence, the answer she gets is a soft "maybe." They try to explain the process to Michael's mother when she subsequently misunderstands and thinks they plan on having Michael procreate directly with Angela's daughter.
Angela gets Jealous Over Michael's American Female Friends
To have an extra reference for when he moves to America with Angela, Michael presses for her to meet his friends who have previously been in the States, who also all happen to be women. Upon meeting the women, Angela is immediately set off into a jealous tizzy and refuses to talk further. They end up having a big fight in the car, in which she ends up yelling at him to shut up.
Angela Confronts Michael's Friends
Having discretion considering Angela's appearance and age difference with Michael, Angela tries to settle (or start) the dispute by confronting them. Angela ends up yelling at the men and telling them she doesn't like them. They retort by stating she's too "possessive and bossy," which sets her off into throwing her drink at them.
Angela Handcuffs Michael and Makes Him Wear Trump Underwear
It seems the longer Angela and Michael's relationship persists, the stranger it gets. After landing for the second time in Nigeria, Angela enacts a tradition where she makes an unassuming Michael do something kinky and wear something Trump-related.
Unfamiliar with strong-willed women like Angela, Michael is immediately uncomfortable being cuffed, though he freely rocks his new trousers.
Angela Pauses During Her Wedding Vows
Something that Angela isn't is submissive. Frequently establishing her independence and distinction from a subservient wife, she's faced with a challenge when told to repeat "to obey" in her vows. She pauses in aghast, making it a tense moment for everyone, including Michael. She then proceeds to laugh after a beat and reluctantly mutters the line. Good for her for staying consistent and not backing down.
Angela Smashes Cake in Michael's Face
Time after time, due to a stint in which Michael was unfaithful while Angela was away, her trust is continuously wavering.
When Michael attempts to apologize to her for the second time while she gets her hair done at a salon, Angela takes the cake and smashes it into his face. A painful yet hilarious moment that may indicate it's the final stretch in their relationship.
Angela Has Michael Wear Trump Merch on Their First Night Together
Certainly unconventional, Angela is happy to push Trump merch for the first time on Michael, who goes along with the gift package. She gives him a MAGA hat and Trump shirt before shutting the camera crew out of the hotel room for what is inevitably a steamy first night together. Political articles are sure to spruce up any date night, as everyone is already aware. Nonetheless, this was a moment that likely shocked and grossed out many.