Memphis Sandoval has only seen Moknii Hamza in person once, but the American mother is determined to marry her Tunisian partner on 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days before her two-week trip is up. Hamza and Memphis are grappling with serious communication issues, lifestyle differences, and lies. This has caused 90 Day Fiancé fans to question why Memphis is so eager to quickly marry Hamza despite their obvious issues.
Hamza and his mother have both expressed their concerns over a hasty marriage. Memphis has so far clashed with Hamza, which has led to repeated arguments. Meanwhile, she has expressed her doubts that he can be the joint provider she and her sons need in the United States. However, Memphis still gave Hamza a serious ultimatum. She told Hamza that if they did not marry before she returned to the US after her trip, then she would break up with him and move on. After a private conversation, Hamza reluctantly agreed to marry Memphis.
Reddit user U/SilverNebula questioned Memphis and her thought process. “Why is Memphis so desperate to marry Hamza?! I don't get it... Why is she so desperate to marry him that she said if they don't get married NOW, then they won't be together at all?“ the user asked. The user noted that marrying Hamza would create more issues for Memphis, as she would then have to financially support him and handle the extensive paperwork to get him to the US with her. “I don’t get it either because regardless of whether or not they get married on this trip, it would still be a while until he could come to the states. She’s going home alone either way,” another commenter wrote. Other commenters speculated that Memphis was desperate to rush into a second marriage due to self-esteem issues.
Memphis has discussed having a difficult childhood that could have left her with abandonment issues. However, many viewers are frustrated with Memphis for forcing Hamza into a quick marriage when she doesn’t even treat him with respect. “Her English to him is so f****** disrespectful. … You don't have to speak like a caveman to people with ESL,” one angry commenter wrote. The broken way Memphis speaks to Hamza has annoyed many viewers, as does the way she constantly whines at him and dictates his behavior. “She is controlling. I hope he backs out ..that is not the way to treat your significant over. You shouldn't have to ultimatum, bully etc to get married,” another concerned user wrote.
Though the status of Memphis and Hamza is not officially confirmed, viewers heavily suspect that the couple married after appearing on Before The 90 Days. Rumors suggest that Hamza joined Memphis in the U.S. and that the couple had a baby girl together since filming. However, there is currently a lot of uncertainty as to whether or not Memphis and Hamza are still together. Both Memphis and Hamza have shared cryptic posts that suggest breakups and then reconciliations. Viewers will have to wait for the 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 5 Tell-All to see if Memphis and Hamza are still together.
Source: u/SilverNebula/Reddit