90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? fans have been talking about stars Jenny Slatten and Sumit Singh, and wondering if their age gap is triggering some issues in their relationship. The pair's romance has been closely followed by viewers. They have a 30-year age gap, which is one of the biggest age differences in the franchise.
Oftentimes, couples with a large age gap struggle to see eye to eye on key issues. Some followers of Jenny and Sumit's relationship believe that this is the prevalent problem in their marriage, and have even accused Jenny of holding Sumit back. Because of their different life experiences, Jenny and Sumit have contrasting expectations, in terms of what they want from each other, and what they want for their futures.
Jenny & Sumit's Discussion About Children
Fans in a Reddit thread started by u/Ok-Jelly-5767 discussed how this age gap would influence Jenny and Sumit's life, particularly where children are concerned. The original poster noted that Jenny met Sumit at 23, and assuming that he wouldn't still want kids ten years later was unreasonable. To some fans, it seems like Jenny didn't, "consider a lot of aspects about this relationship." Jenny appears to be unprepared for the fact that Sumit's goals are likely to change and evolve as he grows older, including plans for a child with Jenny. Adapting to this evolution would require some maturity on both ends, and fans aren't sure it's there.
Why Fans Feel Jenny Should Be More Accepting Of Sumit
Many followers noticed that Jenny often complains about Sumit's, "immaturity," without realizing that it isn't really the problem. With so many variations in experience, it isn't surprising that Jenny and Sumit are in different places. It is a surprise that Jenny would overlook the reason for it. Instead of commenting on it, it would be easier for Jenny to be more accepting of Sumit. She should also communicate her thoughts in a fuller, deeper way, at times when she doesn't understand Sumit's decisions. Constantly claiming to be more mature would not be an appropriate solution to anything. Previously, fans have said that Jenny and Sumit should admit their faults, which seems like a good idea for Jenny.
Why Fans Have Limited Sympathy For Jenny
Although it's hard for some fans to see Jenny and Sumit struggling after so many years together, others think that Jenny was, "delusional" fo assume that Sumit would not change at all. One fan stated that since Jenny was in her 50s when she met her future husband, she, "could reasonably predict" what she wanted. They feel that she should have been well aware that he would not be able to predict what he'd want, as, "there is such a massive period of growth" between the ages of 23 and 33. While the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? couple may be deemed the least problematic, Jenny and Sumit still have some things to work out.
Source: Ok-Jelly-5767/Reddit