Usman Umar and Kimberly Menzies are facing relationship issues on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 7 due to his relationship demands, but some fans have noted that he didn't have the same expectations with Usman's ex-wife Lisa Hamme. The 90 Day Fiancé franchise star appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days with Lisa before joining the cast with Kim after he and Lisa got divorced. Usman and Kim are currently fighting over his need to have multiple wives so that a younger woman can provide him with children. However, his relationship demands have baffled 90 Day Fiancé fans due to his relationship with Lisa in the past.
Reddit user u/britnaaa started a thread comparing the way Usman treats Kim to how he treated his ex-wife Lisa. The viewers pointed out that Usman and Lisa's relationship was very different from his relationship with Kim, as he asked for far less from Lisa than he is currently asking from Kim, who is very similar to Lisa. "With Lisa, there's no mention of having a second wife. They have sex, no mention of him not being able to do that. ... No mention of needing to have children. We don't see Lisa buy him gifts," the user wrote. The confused 90 Day Fiancé fan asked other viewers why they thought Usman had suddenly started changing his relationship demands with Kim.
90 Day Fiancé Fans Think Usman Umar Is A Scammer
Many fans have called Usman a con artist who tried to manipulate Lisa into a green card and is now doing the same with Kim. However, he appears to have evolved his scam to better suit his desires. "He is refining his grift," one fan speculated in the Reddit thread. Others added that appearing on Before the 90 Days inflated his ego. "He’s got chicks in his dms from his 90 day 'fame' now. That’s the difference lol," another fan wrote back. However, other viewers stated that Usman, who gives his 90DF money to charity, and Lisa had a mutual arrangement. "So I think originally Lisa and Usman were a business deal with a little fwb thrown in there. He was seeing dollar signs and she wanted control," one fan theorized.
Did Usman Umar Learn From His 90 Day Fiancé Marriage To Lisa Hamme?
Some commenters believe that 90 Day Fiancé franchise star Usman decided to change his relationship demands after he learned from his failed marriage. "I think because Baby gurl lisa was the first and obviously he thought she was THE ticket for America and he wouldn't need to do this EVER again," one fan wrote before adding that Usman also appeared happier and more relaxed around Lisa. However, other 90 Day Fiancé viewers thought that Lisa controlled her relationship with Usman, and he now has the position to make demands when it comes to his romance with Kim. "Lisa has one of those over powering controlling personalities & Usman kind of bowed to her," one user wrote before adding that Usman has all the control regarding his relationship with Kim.
Overall, 90 Day Fiancé franchise fans have many theories as to why Usman treated Lisa differently than he treats Kim. Some fans believe it was due to Lisa's personality being so different from Kim's, while others believe Usman changed the way he thinks. However, most 90 Day Fiancé fans agree that Usman appears far more demanding with Kim. The Nigerian native expects Kim to adapt to his way of living, although she is still very strong-willed. New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? will reveal if they can come up with a compromise and get married..
Source: u/britnaaa/Reddit