90 Day: The Single Life fans are not thrilled with Debbie's behavior so far on season 3, as they feel that she is severely lacking self-awareness. Debbie first appeared on the franchise with her son Colt Johnson when he married his ex-wife Larissa Lima on 90 Day Fiancé season 6. Debbie later appeared again with Colt on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, where fans called Debbie out for over-stepping too much in Colt's love life. Debbie later went on to star on 90 Day: The Single Life season 2, where she went on several dates but did not find a match.
It appears that Debbie may have finally found a perfect match in Tony, but fans are more concerned with her level of self-awareness. Reddit user -Ho-yeah- began a thread calling Debbie delusional writing, "Doesn't she hear herself when saying to her friends; I am self-sufficient and very independent." Fans think that it is hypocritical of Debbie to consider herself an independent woman when she is relying on her friends to provide her with housing as her lease is almost up. Debbie is struggling to pay her rent after her son Colt moved out with his wife Vanessa, and while fans feel bad for her, they do not think this shows Debbie to be a self-sufficient woman.
90 Day Fiancé Fans Think Debbie Is Moving Too Fast With Tony
Much of Debbie's recent lack of self-awareness seems to have come from her whirlwind romance with Tony. In the trailer for an upcoming episode of The Single Life, Tony is seen telling Debbie that she is free to move in with him if she would like. Debbie seems to be considering Tony's offer, which fans find to be crazy considering the couple had only met in person once up until that point. Debbie often criticized Colt for moving too fast in his relationships, so it is hypocritical of her to do the same thing without any self-awareness.
Other fans felt that Debbie was hypocritical to label herself as independent when she has always been so reliant on Colt. Reddit user __SerenityByJan__ commented, "Debbie has no idea what independence looks like. After the passing of her husband, she made Colt her husband-son." Fans have questioned Debbie and Colt's relationship for years, as many feel that Debbie has guilted Colt into staying with her for so many years after her husband passed away. Debbie was both financially and emotionally dependent on Colt and was not independent or self-sufficient during those times.
Debbie is a controversial cast member among fans of 90 Day: The Single Life and some are even more annoyed with her segments this season as opposed to last season. Many fans find Debbie to be hypocritical and not self-aware and are put off by some of her crude remarks. While Debbie seems to have good intentions, some fans feel that she needs to work on acknowledging her own mistakes and being more self-aware.
Source: u/-Ho-yeah-/Reddit